THOUGHTS: TOWARDS A DEEPER MEANING

Just a set of thoughts to enlighten your lives by means of few words because writing long posts was getting too mainstream and reading them becomes tiring sometimes.

1) PARENTAL LOVE   

Your  mom and dad love you for no reason, so you have got a reason to love them back.

2)DEDICATION

While some people were busy in making a built for someone whom they have never seen, I refrained myself from talking to her to make one.

3)MOTIVATION

Everyone is good at something, or the other, that might just not be your cup of tea. But that doesn't mean he/she do not deserve a chance.

4)BELIEVE IN YOURSELF

Follow your heart and listen to no one else, because no one can play your role better than yourselves. 

5)SACRIFICE

Just for the sake of happiness for those who hate me the most, I had to leave the ones whom I love the most.

6)STOP GETTING HARASSED AND SPEAK UP

Make sure the air you are intake is fresh oxygen and not the fart that comes from someone else.

7)DEPRESSION

I am remaining quite nowadays, that isn't because I wish so, its just because the circumstances reinforced me to do so.

8)CONFIDENCE PLAYS A KEY ROLE

Keep quiet and let your hardwork speak up for you.

9)TALENT

You have always got something, that can make them feel addicted to you.

10)NEVER UNDERESTIMATE YOURSELF 

Imperfections is always a part of beauty, so more the number of  imperfections you have, more beautiful you are.

11)LOVE

There is always someone who enters your life as a stranger and becomes an utmost priority, above everyone and everything else.

12)EXPRESSIVENESS 

While chatting with her, I gave her innumerable hints that she is the special one, she still didn't got that, is she the dumb one or is it me who isn't able to express feelings affectionately. 

13)FAKING SUCKS, ORIGINALITY ROCKS!!

Originality might be full of errors or imperfections but it is always better than faking around.

14)INEXPRESSIBLE PAINS

Sometimes, we are just short of words, to describe what all we have been going through.

15)HEARTLESS PEOPLE

It isn't about being arrogant, its just about playing with someone's feelings and emotions.

BELOW THE RED VEIL: Lets unveil the truth

Some people die about a thousand times before their death and shockingly here also the statistics say that the victims are majorly women and this feeling of dying before death, is most of the times due to 'RED VEIL', yes the one which symbolizes the auspiciousness of marriage in a women's life.

Although we are living in the 21st century and thankfully we have won against many predefined norms like the Sati movement or be it the dowry cases, and the education ratio of girls is to boys is also maintained quite fairly, but are women still able to live upto their dreams or is this red veil creating a hurdle in their path and is the reason for the shattering of their dreams.

Although being a part of the modern civilized society, many a times we see that women had to give up their jobs after marrying, just to raise children, do household chores, service to husband and in laws. And as we know everything has a price to pay, yes do u know there is actually a significant price a women is paying for her marriage, no no I am not talking about the father's money or leaving their own homes. But sadly the price is the ability to wish,to aspire, to aim ,to visualize, to be independent, to dream and to fly high.

Don't you think that actually they are the examples of people, who actually die at 25 but are buried at 75. Although living in a civilized era,women after marriage are provided with most of the luxuries and happiness, but don't you think somewhere or the other, they are still the mere puppets in the hands of in-laws. Although a married women is given a lot of importance, respect and honour in family, love is showered all over her, but still... don't you think somewhere or the other, they are tortured and harassed under the family's pressure. they might not feel or take it as a pressure, but don't you think that their lives just gets restricted to their children and families only. They can't take time out for themselves.

Although giving birth to children and bringing them up is an integral part of a women's life, but why all this at the cost of draining her own dreams. Doesn't it feel like stabbing ourselves with a knife. Raising up children, living for them, loving them, getting the love back, obviously gives an immense amount of happiness to a women and it can't even be compared to any other happiness in life, but why all this at the cost of her own dreams ?

It isn't that talking against marriages implies that I am against them, instead it is one of the most beautiful bond between two soulmates, until and unless the bond gets converted to a burden.And believe me for the people out there that stop marrying isn't even a way out, as getting married is one of the most amazing feeling in the world. Don't believe me, ask your parents.

Marriage is not only about sex life. It is the example of the purest forms of relationship between two individuals who turn out to be soulmates, who tie a knot to stay together forever and ever and gets entitled to stay together firm and determined in facing every good or bad situation for the rest of their lives. It is about giving each other a personal space and time, sharing feelings, helping one another and loving each other. And apart from all this planning is also one of the essentials of a successful married life.

Just after marriage, a girl leaves her house and enters a new house as a woman. She commences her married life, with hell loads of responsibilities on her shoulders, tries to spread gaity  and smile, with her ever brightening smile and good nature, makes special dishes for almost everyone in the family. So husbands and in-laws also gets a duty to cover, a role to play and yes that is to stand by her always and support her forever.

Just remember girls, a person who doesn't allow you to stand on your own feet, just don't let him stand by you.

KNOCK KNOCK: Why don't you show up ??

Just ask yourself have you got any talent to show off, which can enable you to earn money and get fame, then why not show it to the world? Why are you scared of getting on the stage and what are you afraid of, comments from people, what will they think of you and will be making fun of you?, then my friend in that case its the high time you should "STOP OVERTHINKING & START LIVING",before that talent gets ruined.

You have got a passion which you like to change into a profession, then for what are you still sitting and thinking about? Don't care about the world, because people who are against the dream path in life don't deserve anything except the standing ovation of your middle finger.. Don't listen to anyone else and just follow your heart because once a day will come in your lifetime when you will look back or either look at someone and say, 'I wished I could be him/her', but by then the time had gone and yes the time wasted never comes back even for the richest and the fittest.

So, its high time,you must follow what your heart says because no one can play your role better than yourself and why to put yourself in someone else's shoe, when you have got your own abilities that might just enable you to buy a couple of pairs along with the standard bread and butter. Live for yourself, because if someone stops you from doing what you wish, it apparently may be because it isn't their cup of tea or they might have failed in doing so, but that doesn't mean it applies to you as well, does it?

People generally after growing up prospect about their lives and admire, 'I could be this or that', but that is the time when they have lost the will,power,futility,ability and dedication to make that dream come true. All they have now is the fragility in their bones and the ability to get tired very soon by doing almost nothing. And then they are left with no other option except to blame others, that  it is because of them we are like this today or to blame the circumstances that might have prevailed in their lives at an earlier stage, but the result is that they now cant change themselves into what they wanted to be.

But we are living on different terms of life, we are young,we are youth,we have the ability to do better for ourselves and for the world around, People expect from us and we are the ones who have to take up the responsibility of making the world a little more developed,a little more sensible, knowledgeable and a little more practical. And if we don't start working on it today, then my friend it would be really unfair to blame others or the circumstances in the older phase of our lives.

It isn't like that I am being cruel, insensitive or disobeying elderly, instead I am the one whose heart is filled with love, care and respect for them, all I am trying is to chase against the notion of the society that most of the times, remain unchallenged "Babies are born, follow the footsteps of others, and at the dead bed think about a thousand more things/ideas ", but that isn't the right state or frame of time to think so. People generally never try to think out of the box and keeps and keeps on following the path designed for them by someone else, but its the high time now you must ask yourselves and try to find out where do you excel and where you want to carry forward your life to?

At last , all I need to ask is, Will you show up now? Will you put your first step forward now towards chasing your own dreams instead of following the footsteps of others ?